A trauma-informed training and certification program

Is Your Church Safe?

Equipping churches to recognize, respond to, and prevent emotional, spiritual, and relational abuse—biblically and with compassion.

The Heart Behind the Safe Church Project

The Safe Church Project was born out of both heartbreak and hope. As a survivor, an advocate, and a ministry leader, I’ve seen the devastating consequences when the Church is unprepared to respond to abuse—and the beautiful healing that begins when we get it right.

Here’s why this work matters:

  • Because Too Many Survivors Are Hurt in the Place Meant to Heal

    Emotional, spiritual, and relational abuse often hides behind scripture, charisma, or institutional power. Survivors are sometimes met with doubt, shame, or theological distortion—leaving them more wounded by the response than the abuse itself. Many leave the church not because they’ve walked away from God, but because the church unknowingly walked away from them.

  • Because Dysfunction Is Being Normalized—Even in the Church

    Many families and churches have unknowingly accepted emotionally unhealthy or covertly abusive dynamics as normal. This leads to fractured identities, internalized shame, insecure attachment, and distorted ways of loving ourselves and others. The Church must be equipped to name what is broken and stop spiritualizing dysfunction.

  • Because Church Leaders Want to Help—but Haven’t Been Trained

    Most pastors and ministry teams care deeply—but they’re not trauma-informed. They weren’t taught how to recognize covert abuse, understand trauma responses, or navigate complex power dynamics. Without training, even well-intentioned responses can retraumatize. The Safe Church Project equips leaders with the biblical, practical, and psychological tools to become safe responders.

  • Because the Church Cannot Fulfill the Great Commandment Without Becoming a Sanctuary for Healing

    To truly love God and love others, churches must first become safe places. Healing must take root within the Church before it can overflow into families, communities, and society. This requires intentional discipleship that confronts generational dysfunction and rebuilds emotionally healthy, spiritually safe congregational cultures.

  • Because a Safe Church Reflects the Heart of God

    Jesus protected the vulnerable, disrupted spiritual abuse, and called out leaders who used power to control rather than serve. A safe church doesn’t just check legal boxes—it reflects the heart of the Shepherd who leaves the ninety-nine for the one. When churches become places of refuge, restoration, and repair, they embody the Gospel in its fullest form.

Because Love Requires Safe Spaces

What We’re Building—and Why It’s Different

The Safe Church Project is a trauma-informed, biblically grounded training and certification initiative designed to help churches recognize, respond to, and prevent emotional, spiritual, and psychological abuse. Our goal is to transform well-meaning but unprepared churches into safe, healing-centered communities where the love of Christ can be lived out fully and responsibly.

Because safety is not optional when love is the mission.

Coming in 2026: Sanctuary Certified Curriculum

The Safe Church Project is more than a one-time training—
it’s a comprehensive, biblically grounded, trauma-informed pathway designed to help churches create lasting cultural change.

This flexible, self-paced program equips pastors, leaders, and lay teams to recognize emotional, spiritual, and psychological abuse, respond without causing further harm, and rebuild ministry environments rooted in safety, humility, and love.

Here is what you can expect:

💻 7-Module Video Course

Core training built around biblical principles, trauma-informed theology, and real-world case studies. Designed for churches of all sizes and denominations.

🏷️ Safe Church Certification

Official recognition for churches and individuals who complete the training and commit to a culture of safety, accountability, and compassion.

🧠 Lay Counselor & Leadership Track

Expanded training for pastoral care teams, mentors, and lay leaders who want deeper guidance for walking with survivors or navigating complex family dynamics.

📂 Survivor-Informed Tools & Policies

Downloadable checklists, conversation guides, and sample church policies designed to build healthy boundaries and systems from the inside out.

📍 National Safe Church Directory

An optional public listing to help survivors and families identify churches that are trained and equipped to respond with wisdom and grace.

🏛️ Whole-Church Integration Plan

Practical steps and guided tools to help your entire ministry—from senior leaders to volunteers—implement trauma-informed practices across all departments, not just counseling or care. This ensures your church doesn’t just talk safety—it lives it.

Rooted in Scripture. Informed by trauma. Designed to transform culture.

This Is for the Church That Cares

Pastors and elders who want to lead with integrity

Lay counselors and mentors providing pastoral care

Ministry leaders who need practical help

Survivors longing for hope in the Body of Christ

Churches ready to become sanctuaries of healing

MEET THE FOUNDER & CEO of REstoration resources

Welcome!

Hi, I’m Adrienne—a survivor, educator, ministry leader, and fierce advocate for safe, emotionally healthy churches.

For years, I wrestled with the disconnect between the love of Jesus and the harm done in His name. I saw how emotional and spiritual abuse—especially the kind hidden behind religious language or leadership titles—left deep, lasting wounds. I also saw churches that meant well but didn’t know how to respond. That silence was often more painful than the abuse itself.

I founded the Safe Church Project as part of my doctoral work in Christian Leadership, but more than that, I created it as an answer to a cry I couldn’t ignore—mine, and so many others’. I believe the Church can do better. I believe Jesus is still healing, still restoring, and still calling His Body to love with both truth and tenderness.

This project is my offering.
For the sake of the wounded.
For the sake of the Church.
And for the sake of the Gospel.

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You are invited to be a part of what has been missing.

The Safe Church Project isn’t just a program—
It’s a movement toward healing, safety, and truth in the Body of Christ.


If you believe the Church can do better—and you want to be part of that change—
this is your invitation.

The Table is Being Set. Your Seat is waiting.